I wondered what people's opinion would be on this situation. This happened many years ago. I found out the man I was with and was pregnant with his child had another child he never told me about he wasn't in contact with the child (the usual line that the mum had stopped him.) Anyway I had the baby and he reached out to her about seeing his child but when she found out he had had another baby she was very angry and blocked him and told him he wouldn’t be seeing the child again. She also said a lot of vile things about me and my child, really nasty things. Anyway ex and I broke up and are not together and I've got on with my life but recently was discussing this with people and they told me I should reach out to her and it's understandable that she was angry. They seemed quite annoyed that I didn’t want to reach out. Personally I have no plans to do this and I think no matter how angry you are you don't wish vile things on a baby. So I'm not planning to reach out and I assume the feeling is mutual as equally she knows we exist and has never reached out either. There was no overlap and he wasn't in a relationship with her. Would you have reached out in my situation?