Me and my bf had an argument the other day, i stayed upstairs in the bedroom with our baby with doors shut, whilst he was downstairs drinking, then I noticed a smell and realised he was smoking weed downstairs, I confronted him about it and he said I can only smell it because I opened the door and that he has windows and doors open downstairs, I said noo I opened the door because I smelt weed and the smoke can still linger and then I am worried about secondhand smoke around our baby-he usually smokes away from baby out on walks or in garden and cleans up after, such us change of clothes brushes teeth etc. pissed off that he is smoking it in the house as he knows how I feel about it, it is his house so I feel I have no say, but out baby comes first and I don't want her around that! He didn't get into bed until 4/5 in morning, so was just over tired the next day, when he could have used that quality time on the weekend with his baby.
I confronted him again next day and he got really defensive comparing it to spraying deodorant cans and still believe all smoke goes out the window. I moved out of my current house because of my mum and bro heavy smokes so he knows how I feel.
Then again this evening he was smoking in the kitchen door shut window open, I confronted him again and he just said 'don't come round then' then when I said he is choosing smoking in the house over us coming over, he got annoyed.
He never used to smoke I when I came round he always used to smoke outside, so not sure why the sudden change it not caring, he says he is under a lot of stress but is closed and there's no excuse to act like a prick.
What would you do? What do I do?