Any police savvy people on here or people with previous experience?
No judgement wanted please be kind as already struggling enough.
so my now ex was arrested for assault/criminal damage(not sure as haven’t been told the charges) I was grabbed around the jaw and pushed over. Hes now on bail for another 2 months for CPS to come back with a charging decision.
i am pregnant with a toddler and this is stressing me out beyond belief. The relationship is over and we won’t be getting back together like people assume the victim wants. But why should I subject myself to anymore stress. My pregnancy is high risk. He is going to see the children regardless. Social services are now involved and not concerned with either of us as parents.
I’ve now withdrawn my statement. what’s the likelihood of him still being charged and this going to court? I am not willing to go to court being pregnant/having a new baby. These are the facts -
Statement from me- yes but withdrawal of support (states statement is correct just don’t support the process)
Witness statement- yes, about phone call they received from me (they retracted their statement straight away due to health reasons)
999 call- made by the witness who has retracted their statement, they wasn’t present, the 999 call was made after a phone call from me.
Injuries- none from the incident in question
Admission in interview- no would of denied everything
Body worn footage- don’t know if they was turned on but if they was it would be yes of me upset and 1st account.
in my original statement I provided pictures of a bruised arm (mild bruising) and a punch whole in a door from a previous incident where police wasn’t called.
2 previous police call out from neighbours who overheard arguing. No previous arrests and he has a clean record apart from driving offences for points.
There’s been no bail breaches.
I hit him in the groin area in the incident out of self defence which I admitted straight away and was in my statement. He has also said this from his side (shock).
was classed as ‘high risk’ by police and put on marac presumably because I am pregnant and have a young child. Ever since have been classed as low risk and no one is concerned.
can I just say again the relationship will not be resumed and I know how disgusting this behaviour is. I just can’t cope with the stress and uncertainty. SS are surprisingly supportive, I am working with them completely and have been honest about retracting and my reasons why. No child protection concerns from their point of view.
police said it’s unlikely cps will summons me.
what do you think the likelihood is of CPS deciding to charge? And how long are CPS taking to make these kinds of decisions? I’m in the south west.