So some of you may recall me from a previous post about relationship issues a couple of months ago, when I saw messages sent by my partner to a friend describing me as a weak person, and saying he wishes he was single etc. Things improved slightly for a wee while and he apologised etc, then kept getting quick to anger still and taking it out on me. I said if things didn't improve that I would be ending the relationship (every night he was getting angry when I asked him to change baby or feed baby etc) and things have been miles better, he's been really supportive and helpful for a couple of weeks until yesterday.
I work from home (run my own business and its very flexible but do have to work most of day), and when he came home he was angry that dirty dishes were not on the side of the sink and in the sink instead, and that the bin hadn't been taken out. I do majority of housework and I am the main earner. It erupted into a much bigger argument over text and ended with him saying he was done with me. I asked whether he meant the relationship or the conversation, and he read the message and did not respond. Is now saying he meant the conversation but was quite happy for me to wonder either way and be upset until we saw each other.
When I stood up for myself and said that I am exhausted and really busy and just want some empathy and understanding if I don't manage to do something, he told me to grow up, and then sent this:
"You asked me why I was so angry and I told you. I explained that it's because you keep turning to the same old tired irrelevant crap. I've not asked you to do anything extra or anything that would take up more of your time. You've made it abundantly clear you've not taken anything I've said onboard so I'm done with you"
More a rant, but i guess I'm curious if anyone else has experienced stuff like this since having a baby. It feels really unhealthy and I don't want the wee one growing up with us like this.