Been with DH for 5 years and have a one year old child. I’m a sahm and we’re financially comfortable however DH is a workaholic and it’s now effecting our relationship terribly. He generally is out the house 4:30-8 some nights 11pm. I’ve always tried to be supportive with this by having a clean home for him to come back to, dinner ready, work clothes washed and ironed etc. I also make a conscious effort to organise DC to go to my parents so we can have date night, but he’s usually so tired by Friday it’s never really even worth it. So I’m now struggling as these hours are effecting his ability to have the energy for conversations, intimacy etc. which are both fundamental in a relationship for me anyway! Family holidays have now changed to work trips, evenings have now turned into catching up on emails and I feel like there’s no time or effort for me/us. I genuinely feel like I have a one year old and a teenager at the moment when he’s home. I don’t know where to go from here as it feels like the same argument every week, where we are just not on the same page about the situation. He feels strongly that I should just support him working hard for the family however I’m struggling to accept this. In a nut shell he’s completely burnt out and can’t understand my concerns. Hoping to hear some thoughts on this situation as I can imagine it’s quite common! X