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Seperation

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stevie107 · 21/11/2023 10:48

My relationship with my husband is over and I don't know what to do next. We have two young kids. We rent the house we live in.
For my mental health and my kids I want to move out but can I do this? I don't want anything from him just my kids.

OP posts:
Quweenie · 21/11/2023 18:07

I don’t have much advice, but sending you hugs.

Are you in an unsafe environment?

Is there anything that has lead to this separation in particular?

MintJulia · 21/11/2023 18:20

If you are truly finished, then you need to agree calmly between yourselves how to separate.

Ideally look at finding two smaller homes relatively close together so your children can continue to see both parents regularly, and you can support each other in terms of childcare.

You have more than a decade of co-parenting so if you can possibly find a way through it amicably, you will all benefit from that.

Pumpkinpie1 · 21/11/2023 18:29

An amicable split is better for kids if possible. Have you looked at your rental agreement to see whose names on the tenancy , when your tenancy ends , notice , fines etc.
Could you afford to take over the rent?

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