I've been casually seeing my fwb/bf/situationship for a year. He spends every night with me. He hasn't told anyone we're seeing each other, my family/friends know.
He will spoon and touch me affectionately in bed with or without sex but does not kiss me. We have kissed during sex before but not for months. He hugs me goodbye, doesn't really touch me unless we are in bed.
The sex can be good, he isn't selfish in that regard, but I'm often left feeling empty afterwards. The lack of affection and avoiding kissing is becoming an issue for me. tmi, he prefers to finish in my mouth every time. I have birth control and he's not worried he'll get me pregnant. I think he prefers to have sex in positions where he can't see my face or be close enough to kiss and it's shit.
I asked him if he likes other positions and he said yeah he does, do I want to write down exactly how I want it and we'll do that? What sort of answer is that??
If you made it this far, thanks for reading!