So my girlfriend (sophie) has recently come out of a 9 year relationship with a guy(Jamie)who has kids with her and has treated her little less than a sex toy. He cheated emotionally abused her and was an all out cock to her. She tried to give as much back with the attitude but it fell very short of the mark.
I knew them for 6 years before I actually stepped into the picture. Jamie wanted to sleep with there next door neighbour and as opposed to being cheated on again, she made a deal with him. He xan do what ever with the neighbour and she can do anything with me in the bedroom sense, which he agreed and encouraged.
The first night went a lot better than expected and we hit it off however her now ex partner didn't like how close we were getting and decided to call it all of. That's when Sophie found out he was still sexting other women. So she ended it with him and got with me. However he manipulated her in a way to end it with after only a few weeks and this went on for about 3 months. Until he found another women (abby) and now he's stopped talking to her completely and always causes and argument when he comes round. But she feels shit and horrible to me for having these feelings and dreams because "she loves and is in love with me, but she loves him but isn't in love with him, the love for him won't ever grow" tbh I'm kinda struggling as to what solutions to suggest to her. Sorry for the long rant