Ex partner only spends about 4 weeks in the uk but it’s just as and when he happens to fly in and be about. He then makes demands about seeing the kids. I find the whole thing so draining to be honest. I basically raise them and do all the hard graft and then he swoops by with loads of gifts and is mr fun. Then off her goes again.
I would love some advice on how I should navigate this and what’s reasonable. Especially with Christmas coming up and him being back briefly. The kids are 7 and 5.