My partner is lovely he runs me baths rubs my back when I’m ill and does bits around the house although I do most but I work less. He’s never Been good at planning dates being romantic he sees buying flowers a waste of time etc it’s all the little things I love. I’ve made it clear to him that I love these things and do it for him naturally. When we first met he did some of these things but it’s stoped completely really. Well it all finally came to head recently, as he struggles with affection due to medication making him have no libido but we’ve both worked on that and are in a good place with it. after mentioning how I felt about the lack of attention the dates etc on his part I blew up and said how un loved all of this combined made me feel. He did try and talk out when I listed of all the previous dates we had done I planned he then said how was he supposed to know what was on at the theatre. So I shouted back well how did I know was my brain born with the what’s on program inside it no I bloody googled it. He’s then apologised for days saying he didn’t realise I felt like that but nothings really changed. I said to him a few days ago when it came up that i obviously feel worse about it as the amount of affection I want isn’t there so I maybe more annoyed about all the little things. But for once I want him to plan a nice date or surprise me could just be my favourite chocolate bar dosnt have to cost a lot.To make things worse our two friends are now dating and any time they come up between us and I say oh they’ve gone to the cinema or for dinner he then claims his friends not being genuine and is just trying to impress her. I’ve said are just annoyed as you think he’s making you look bad but he’s said no and that he’s just wooing her. He’s said he would go to therapy with me but i don’t think it would help as he thinks he does a lot.