Hi, I'll try not to make this too long.
A bit of background, with my partner nearly 4 years but split for 2 months a year and half ago due to his heavy drinking. He got help, had counselling and went to rehab, however they said he was doing really well and said he could leave day 10 out of 14. I supported him through this and we got back together.
He did well for 4 months then started having a couple cans after work, then from 4 on days off and now from 12.
We don't live together he lives with his dad but he got paid Friday and today he has nothing because he's spending it all on beer, betting and slots, he'll now borrow off his dad, lose that too then owe most of his wages out.
Tonight I had enough, said im fed up of him wasting his money when he watches me spend every penny just trying to keep the kids fed and warm and he does nothing to help out the 2 nights a week hes here but happily eats my food and uses my water, gas and electric.
It hasn't gone down well, I was told its none of my business where his money goes and yes he's right we don't live together but after 4 years there's going to be no signs of this changing so we can move forward with our relationship. We don't go anywhere as a couple or do anything but he always seems to have money for pub with his mates after work.
I love him so much but I just feel like I can't carry on like this and I'll never move in with him when he'd rather lose me than change his drinking and gambling lifestyle.
I just don't know what to do