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pushmina · 12/11/2023 17:21

My husband has no respect today I came downstairs and I gave my kids a bath today as we was going to celebrate my grandads birthday today so my 4th child was downstairs I said to him let me go give him a bath as well and get him ready he says to me I have already given him shower I’m reply I said it doesn’t look like it I didn’t mean in offensive way I just said it because he was still in his night suit and hear was bit scruffy anyways long story short he starts fighting and arguing with me in the kitchen because of what I said how I said it the tone how I should of said it.I started getting frustrated he starts raising his voice and my mum is sitting in the living room listening I told him keep your volume low it’s embarrassing I don’t want her to hear he continues and does not care I’m getting more angry I then told him I want to talk to you in private because I heard something you said or maybe is my mistake I don’t know but I want to talk to you in private to that he started screaming so loud at me saying enough is enough I’m sick of living on the edge she’s made my life miserable he’s speaking to my mum I was soo happy before meeting her I have reached my limit by then and start swearing at him because I have had enough and the cherry on top he lies to my mum saying that I started swearing at him first he didn’t do anything I just started abusing him for no reason!!!!

I just can’t take it anymore I’m going crazy this man if he can’t respect my feeling when my mum is around imagine what he’s like when we alone whenever my family are around he raises his voice tries to make himself like he’s more superior to me puts me down I don’t know how much I can take and my own family tell me it’s because you swear at him yea I do because I can’t take his shit disrespect all time they don’t know what he’s like.

how can I live with a man who says this I make his life miserable he can’t make me happy all time I’m not a queen he was more happy before me how can I pretend to be happy with him when I’m not and after all he has said I just don’t feel love for him anymore I’m starting to hate him I don’t know how I can carry on just doing for the kids as they little he claims to love me is all crap he wouldn’t treat me like this.

He is not the same man anymore he has changed and treats me like I’m nothing.

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