Advice please?

[Lou1982]

My partner has never lied to me and until yesterday I trusted him completely.

He was invited to a seminar in March, two weeks at a hotel in a nearby town. I know about the seminar and from the moment he mentioned it, due to him being VERY vague, somethng triggered me and I just dont believe he's going there - it's making me feel sick!

Now as some background he is normally really explanatory as a person, if he goes on a work night out he explains everything, from who first suggested it to every email ever receieved on it.

How do i mention to him that I'm concerned - I dont wish to start an argument?

I've looked up dates for this seminar and cannot see this date and it's never held at this venue either....what can i do??

HELP!

Why don't you book the time off and say you will go with him? Ask him where it is again so you can look it all up and find things to do etc. If you can't manage the two weeks say to him you will join him for so many days etc.

Speak to his colleagues and say you want to surprise him and join him on the conference can they give you the details etc.?

I don't know only suggestions so you can find out what is happening. Having just been suspicious myself I know that sick feeling. Until you have clarified it you won't stop worrying. You need to broach it in some way that won't make him feel that you don't trust him or don't believe him but that you uncover the truth in an innocent way.