Both my parents have been divorced. They met when I was a toddler but although my dad is not my biological father he raised me and he's been amazing. We were close and I saw them weekly and communicated daily with them. My brother fell out with Mum over her treatment of his son and within a week they had removed him from their Will and blocked his number. Last year my sister got a divorce and although my parents weren't particularly supportive of her at the time, they've embraced her new partner and upcoming marriage. This year, my husband moved out and we are getting divorced. My mum and dad have cut me off completely. For months I've had nothing to do with them. They still see my kids but they arrange it with them directly as they're old enough. I called them both soon after and their response was that 'I'd pushed my husband away' they were very aware of the situation that caused my marriage break down and seemed initially supportive of me in the months prior. After a month had passed and I missed them, I reached out on text (as it was too hurtful to speak to them directly) and dad advised me 'we should just leave things as they are'. To further complicate matters dad is currently having some medical tests, the results of which are pending. My sister is encouraging me to acknowledge that their behaviour has been awful but they're old and I should clear the air, accept them and move on. I feel really hurt and I can't let go that they abandoned me when I needed them the most. Any help greatly appreciated please 