Hi all, just coming on for a chat about relationships. I met my partner when I was very young I was 17 now I'm 24 we have two beautiful children together and many good years. As we've both grown we've become very different people we used to be alike and have a laugh together but now we are like polar opposites, we've grown apart more than I'd ever have imagined. He's very loud out spoken, I don't agree with much he says, he's very in my personal stuff likes to see everything I'm up to, doesn't like me drinking (I have never drank very much) but as you get older I feel like everyone needs a way to unwind, he's always been a drinker and has always said he doesn't like that in a partner, regardless that's no what this post is about. I'm very chilled out, quiet, likes boundaries and space to breath now and again, we can't seem to have a conversation no a days without an argument or one of us getting frustrated with the other. I'm constantly being put into uncomfortable situations because of his personality. I love him and I love the life we've built together but we at the same time don't get on. We've been trying to fix this for about a year but both of us are to stubborn to change. He threats to leave constantly but we both know it won't happen. I don't want to tear apart what we have made together it hurt my heart to think about but I do have a plan B here.