Teams message

[Frazzlefrazle]

Please tell me I'm reading too much into this. I was saw a teams message on my husbands phone which read as this

Yup
You are still special to me
Hi

It's nothing right?

No. That's not nothing.

Why are you asking us rather than your husband?

Context is everything.

It could be nothing - he may have ballsed something basic up, and it's a sarcastic pisstake comment.

Or

It's not a sarcastic pisstake comment and you should be concerned.

You won't know unless you ask him.

Not nothing - definitely something. Sorry OP, there’s an involvement there.

It could be something and it also could be nothing ! There's a lot of office "banter" that goes in offices and between colleagues, after all time spent at work with these people can sometimes be more than you do at home. Try and ask your partner directly about it and ask for context and see what he says !

There is no way to categorically know this. It could be a friend/colleague making a daft joke or anything.

I would say, if you're asking the question, you don't trust him already .........

Just ask him??

And then you'll know if it's a 'him' problem or a 'you' problem

It really is about context and we don't have enough to judge.
You might do though OP.

I tend to be on the suspicious side but this sounds exactly like office banter - especially when you’re asking for favours that only a good work friend would willingly help with!

You are still special to me

That's what I tell the cat or children when they've done dumb/stupid things. I would never say it to a romantic partner.

People are so dramatic 😂it isn’t definitive proof. You need to just ask him.

Ask him. This doesn’t ring alarm bells for me, but I’d def ask about it. Sounds like pretty lame work chat.

It's not nothing, no.

Who is the message from?

@Frazzlefrazle, if you would elaborate, we might be able to help.

Looks like half the chat has been deleted, unless you’ve only shared one side.
That alone doesn’t sound like nothing, as why delete if nothing?
Also was this a work thing? If so, that’s very, very stupid of your husband. Everything is tracked and almost always recoverable. Having an affair with a colleague and using work applications. How to blow up every facet of your life in one fell swoop.

I wouldn’t like my husband reading my phone nor would he appreciate me reading his

more context is needed