So my boyfriend has recently swapped his office job to work with his dad and brother. He only had to go into the office 2 days a week and work from home the other days but was very flexible so could help come shopping etc while still working from his phone. His salary isn't going to change for now but potentially earn more in the future but he was unhappy and bored with the other job and enjoys it more in the family business so went for it. The difference now is he has to work 6 days a week 9-5 then he does some evenings too where he can get home as late as 11. This week he's working 7 days. He goes to the gym every morning before he sets off and football on a Monday evening too. We have a 2 year old a 12 and 16 year old. I'm a student nurse so do full time placement 6-8 weeks at a time then uni and assignments/training 6-8 weeks at a time. I also pick up bank shifts at work sometimes when I can too. I do all the housework sort the kids etc he seems to be in then out and straight in bed just leaving me with his washing. When he is at home in the evenings he tends to just sit on his phone working or scrolling so I feel like he's not that bothered about speaking to me. He wants to speak to me about his work but then has no interest in what I'm doing. I've explained how I'm struggling trying to juggle everything and feeling ignored. The change from having him to speak to a lot to now barely at all is a big change for me. He says it's not forever as they want to employ someone else to take some pressure off and I do know he's doing it for a better future for us but I just feel like times going to fly with our two year old and I don't want him missing out on her now. I also just feel like since we got together there's always been something priority over spending time with me. He has got an addictive personality so when he's focused on something he does become tunnel visioned. Am I being unfair to feel unhappy because that's how I'm feeling 🥺