I met a woman at an activity group a few years go. She seems to have taken a liking to want to be friends. She has no other friends and says people only hang out with her to go to gigs together and don't have a friendship outside of that. She said no-one turned up to her 30th birthday party.
She went on holiday with a guy recently and while they were there they had a disagreement and he said she was overbearing and no longer exists to him. He blocked her on all platforms and they spent the rest of the holiday apart. She can be very defensive and purposely disagrees with me most of the time.
She runs a bowling group I went to and I asked if we could go back to having 2 lanes as having 1 lane took hours to finish the games and I was getting home at 11pm on a Monday night making me tired for work the next day. She refused and said no it is one lane for people to social but we still socialised with 2 lanes. Numbers have dwindles recently.
I am fed up losing time as she wants to chat on the phone at inconvenient times about her health issues and loneliness. Yet she ignored advice off me and ignored the health professionals advice. She has plantar fasciitis and her sister is a GP and told her she is overweight and she said her sister is insulting her.
I have had enough as last night she got defensive then I made a comment about some people have got their job at work through others hard work. She told me I can't say that and kept saying it. I said why I can't I say that and said this conversation ends now. She gritted her teeth and agreed and said bye. She is very controlling and had a go at me for not voting the once which I have told her it is none of her business. She does not like it when people have a different view.
How do I phase her out? I haven't got time for negative people like her. I feel she is disrespectful to me with the aggression. None of my other friends are like this. She doesn't realise why she has no friends.