Me and my husband gotten into a very heated conversation over the phone. He called saying he felt disrespected because I yelled at him lastnight (currently we’re not living together). I told him I didn’t yell at him I know I had tone but I didn’t yell. I was upset on Saturday because he came way later in the day 6pm almost 7pm to come pickup our son when he said he’ll come get him around 3pm and he said he’ll be a little late and nowhere in our messages did he said he changed his mind on picking him up.
So yesterday, Monday we started texting and after the last text I sent he called me saying he felt disrespected because I yelled at him and then conversation just turned left where we’re both going back and forth and he’s just throwing out false accusations and saying things like “I need to learned how to shut up, I better be glad that he married me, and that I need to listen to him cause I’m his wife and he don’t need to listen to me because he’s the husband, I’m always lying.” I couldn’t take the arguing going back and forth so I just hung up and ignored his calls. While he’s calling my phone, he’s also sending these messages. An hour later a police is outside my house doing a welfare check and the police officer says that my husband has been trying to get in contact and haven’t heard from me all day and wanted to see if our son was ok. I told the officer that we were just on the phone arguing and he’s currently messaging. And the officer said he didn’t know that.
And later in the he called apologizing about what he said and that it gotten heated. And texted me this morning saying he’s sorry about our conversation gotten out of hand and that it makes him sad and that he loves me. I just need some advice, maybe I was in the wrong? Any advice is appreciated.