Hello all
need some help
me and my parter had our little boy nearly s year ago
my first her second
bit of background
my stance is im very open and communicative
she was very closed of after getting pregnant and having the pregnancy from hell
she literally turned over night and im not exaggerating
got told she doesnt love me any more doesnt know if she wants our family got locked out few times for a week if not longer
our relationship was never perfect we was dating for over a year seeing eachother little while before but we both fell in love with eachother and she still to this say the love of my life
i see our other little boy as my own and have done and would keep on doing anything and everything for them
she was by all means a horrible person last year and to this day still has her moments but don't we all
so yeah the intimacy is non existent apart from having legs on me while watching tv having a chilled night together
i dont live with her as we are saving due to me sleeping at my parents etc its cheaper which doesnt mean easier just means we can enjoy and do the garden up etc
but yeah she doesnt express how she feels like i do which doesnt mean she has to be me and follow my every point but be nice to have her just tell me randomly if she loves me or misses me
ontop that no sex at all which i understand not easy for a mother to give birth one of the hardest things when there is nothing other than ive said is it normal ? Any ideas on what i can do
her friends and family say im supporting them so well and doing right by them and her
there is nothing that woukdnt be done for her and my family
please someone help me and just talk to me lol
im very anxious and read into things but dont think its just that