Advice please

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Hi .. I hope I don’t offend by messaging. But I was just briefing browsing and can I maybe ask an odd question please ? Can a wife/mother that is 51 totally love and adore her hubby and her children .. but crave the experience/excitement of talking to a male stranger online in another country ? Like in Canada ? Even tho she and her hubby have been together since they met at 15 years old and knowing the chat could maybe head in a sexual chat kind of direction? Is it like having time out from being a mum or a wife maybe ? (I’m the hubby by the way)

Yes I think so. Does your wife have many friends in the uk she could talk to either male or female or do you both have friendship groups you can go out and socialize with? It is of course always nice to meet and speak to new people and does not always lead to affairs or cheating which let's be honest most people fear and assume. Do they discuss similar interests or hobbies curious as to how they met online as it is quite a distance? Are things within the marriage going well?

Knowing the chat will head in a sexual direction is disrespectful to her husband unless they have agreed to an open relationship. If she is missing sexual contact and excitement in her marriage then I think it would be best to discuss this with her husband and try to resolve it within the marriage.

I don't think there's any problem with chatting to people online in a platonic manner but when it becomes sexual then I think that crosses a line.

If this is what your wife has done then ultimately it's down to you to decide if that crosses a boundary you're not comfortable with. A bunch of strangers on a forum can't tell you how you should feel and can only share their own opinions on it.