I’ve been seeing a man for a few weeks. Fairly low key, I’ve been unwell and it’s the start of things after all.
He has been very honest with me, and was in a situation that was upsetting for him. He was in a long distance relationship with a woman who seemed to be playing him. He ended things and we met via OLD.
They have been talking again and he finally told her he isn’t interested in her.
Anyway, the point of this is that he rang me and was upset. To me, he was upset because of ending things with this woman, so I told him to sort himself out and that I wasn’t sure about us going forward.
I also told him that if he thinks he has broken it off with the woman that I will be entering into a relationship with him then he is wrong. I’m a low key, go slow type and there are no guarantees with me especially at this early stage.
He sent me a message saying he was only upset because I had told him to ring but then didn’t want to talk to him.
That wasn’t what happened, he was upset from the start of the call.
It feels a bit drama central on his part, and whilst I don’t want that energy, if its a block that he appears to have addressed then maybe I’d continue to see him.
I know this seems trivial, but is this red flag territory?