Recently I had a miscarriage and trying to get over it . Not in a good mood for anything , at times feeling moody, insecure.. recently got into a huge argument with my hubby. All along he was in a jogging/ cycling app whereby there’s event hosted by different company . All along I’m ok and fine with it . Then till days ago . Like around 11.30pm there’s a notification from that jogging app. So I went to take a look , it’s a lady who likes his post. Then out of curiosity because all along I thought it’s an app to track your running record etc I don’t know there’s a function to like / message / contact , similar to Facebook kind. So I went into the app to view my hubby’s pose , this particular girl was like , liking all of his post . Then i felt uncomfortable ., as hubby was asleep , I didn’t ask him anything but deep in my heart I was thinking a lot .
my hubby didn’t like any post or follow anyone in the app , it’s me , my own feeling , insecurities rises again . I was controlling myself not to ask him anything , but my behaviour n face expression couldn’t hide from him . So he came to ask me , is there anything bothering You ? I intended to keep quiet but in the end I asked him about the app. I asked her if he know this lady , he said No, he doesn’t know who she is .
what can he do etc .
from that moment on , he’s angry .
and I seriously regretted . In future I won’t tell him anything about my feeling anymore .anyone could advise me what Should I do , I’m feeling upset .