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Breakup

6 replies

WellIdontknowwhattocallmyself · 21/10/2023 10:47

I had enough by weeks ago. I broke up with him recently and then this morning he broke up with me? What kind of game is that. Maybe he has accepted it’s over and will stop bothering me, and trying to force a relationship that isn’t working now.
I hate that he’s been in my bed in that place by the wall and he’s been in my house. I watched him run down that path at the front of my house to get the bus and I watched him walk down the road for the last time a month ago. I’ve never been to where he is and in his bed or anything. I only moved here a few months ago and already want to leave except I know I can’t run from my problems. I feel like a weights left my shoulders and I can enjoy my life again and focus on myself. Time will heal. I know this was for the best but it still kind of hurts

OP posts:
Basilton · 21/10/2023 10:54

Your post is difficult to understand.

ZebraD · 21/10/2023 10:54

Agreed, I am not sure what is happening here…

WellIdontknowwhattocallmyself · 21/10/2023 10:56

And barely got any sleep, I’m not sure how to many any sense

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Lunabetty · 21/10/2023 11:04

???

PierceMorgansChin · 21/10/2023 11:36

What is this word salad?

clockbuscanada · 21/10/2023 12:39

I completely get what you mean, it's one-sided and unfair when all those visual memories are fresh and you have to confront them over and over again. Not to mention the power imbalance over breaking up vs being broken up with, that's such a mental drain. It will pass, with time.

The only practical thing I can suggest is can you change up your bedroom so it's different? That and just be outdoors a lot.

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