But I looked at my partners phone again.
I looked at this phone last year and found some messages between him and a friend talking about women they know and how they want to sleep with them. I admitted to looking at his phone and told him I was really hurt by
those messages and found them disrespectful. He agreed he was being sleazy and said he wouldn’t say those things anymore.
Fast forward to the last month or so, he was getting very secretive with his phone and would lock his phone whenever I was nearby. This afternoon I had the rare chance to have a look at this phone whilst he was out. Messages from this friend started from September so he had deleted previous messages. He was talking about several women, but one person in particular. It was saying things about dreaming about living with her, meeting her in town, messaging with her and just vile sexual things. Now this woman I know he has messaged previously, but there was no signs of any messages from her on his phone so he’s deleted them. When I confronted him he said it’s me he loves and he doesn’t care about any other woman but me. He would never let another woman touch him, but he said that she had
touched him to his friend. He’s refusing to talk about it and gets angry and blames me.
I don’t know what to do, I don’t know whether to believe him or whether he’s got things to hide