Ex partner was a selfish man who only really cared about his own pleasure. Serious weed habit too. Carped on continually to me, verbally abusive, endless put-downs and criticism that undermined me. We have been separated for several years. Have children together, he's a lousy, disengaged dad and puts them last. I would really like a clean break from him. I left him, he took the family home and I have had no legal resolution yet.
He has been dating other women the last few years, I don't know where he meets them - internet, probably. The last one suffered from poor mental health and had anxiety and an eating disorder. I met her a couple of times, she was lovely and the kids liked her, but my gut reaction was 'you seem quite fragile and vulnerable.' He is the last man who should be involved with a woman like that. Since they split she has been in a bad place and even hospitalised with her conditions, I think.
He is now seeing a woman 20 years younger. The children have met her, and from what I can gather, she has learning difficulties and speech problems and would also be classed as vulnerable. The thought of this pig just using her for the obvious makes my blood boil, but really it's none of my business. She lives with her parents and I get the sense that she may be on the verge of moving into the shit tip that he has turned our old home into. WWYD? Contact her family and have a chat with them? Would you be happy if your sister or daughter got involved with a man like this? He is not violent, but there is a pattern of him being bad for women, if you know what I mean. On the surface a 'nice' bloke but not, at all.