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Shinjao · 16/10/2023 13:03

I will keep my story short, there is my best friend I am with him for 4 years and then there is a girl i also know her for 4 years. They both are my really good friend but some days before i used to sit with that girl and I like to sit with her also my grades got really good because of sitting with her. The problem is my best friend gets jealous whenever he see me with her (it's not like that he like her). He also blocked me and he also started to ignore me. What should I do ??

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TurnerP · 16/10/2023 15:00

Pay more attention in school?

Pinkbonbon · 16/10/2023 15:10

Just to be clear, your guy friend blocked you because he fancies her and is jealous? Or he doesn't fancy her but is still jealous of you spending time together with her?

Either way, he's not your friend. He's an unnecessary drama lama.

He's blocked you so he's solved the problem for you. Don't hang around with jealous, angry men.
Don't excuse them.

I would understand if maybe he felt hurt because you were ONLY spending time with her. But then, if it was that then why wouldn't he just have a conversation with you? I mean, he's supposed to be your best friend. And you his. So surely you could have just talked about it.

Instead he's thrown a strop.
Life is too short. Don't kiss his ass.
Be polite and unbothered if you see him in future, as if you hadn't even noticed he had blocked you. But don't think of him as a friend anymore. Because it seems he isn't.

Life lessons. Don't run after people who act crappy.

Pinkbonbon · 16/10/2023 15:13

Mind you I'm assumimg you're a girl.

If you're a guy maybe he thinks you fancy her.
But I mean the same thing goes really: he could have just talked to you and clarified you didn't like her that way.

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