My husband has his own business and has to work long days mon-Fri and pretty much every saturday. We do family stuff on a Sunday morning and in the afternoon he catches up on paperwork. We have a 1yo and a 3yo who are at nursery 4 mornings a week when I work from home. He earns the vast majority of the money. I do all the house stuff.
The thing I struggle with is that come winter my husband spends multiple Saturdays away all day doing his sport and often goes to the pub after so he’s away literally all day.
I don’t resent him having some fun. But I do resent the fact he can take Saturdays off for that reason, but not to spend time with me and the kids. I know he’s making money to support us but still.
He thinks I’m being unreasonable. I think it’s unfair that I’m expected to look after the children every Saturday without question. Feeling very confused about it and it’s a sticking point in an otherwise pretty good relationship. Thoughts?!