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Feel fed up

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Molls22 · 12/10/2023 13:38

My partner has put this week in as holidays , done nothing and then moaned about it.
I've been off for 3 days and asked him does he want to go somewhere, wall, meal etc...no he just wants to do nothing but watch TV.
Today I've suggested going for a walk, he's told me to go alone because he's gonna go tonight while I'm sorting youngest to bed.
He's been stressed over his money, large car payments and paying debt for his adult children and ex , have tried to talk to him but he twists the conversation.

Last night he was grumpy so I went upstairs to watch TV. He text me to say he was going out for walk and I could have tv. I rang him and asked was he OK, he said I was the one with the problem as I went upstairs.
He has his money, I have mine and we both contribute to the house. He's on more money than me, I spend more on the household though as I have my kids living with us.
He's been really snappy with me and get the feeling he's pissed off at me.
Sorry I realise this is petty compared to others problems, am just dreading going home.
Ended up going for walk and having glass of wine which he'll probably throw back in my face.

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Olika · 12/10/2023 13:46

Could he be depressed?

Molls22 · 12/10/2023 14:09

Possibly. I've tried to gently ask but he's just snapped at me.
He's definitely worried over money, his car payments are 700 a month, he has debt from his kids which is a lot too. I've transferred him money this week to cover some stuff.

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