Hi All
I thought id make a post to gain some insight...
Ex and I broke 6 months ago. He has moved to an ex ( I don't think he has cheated so lets call this woman an ex rather than OW). First 3 months we have been going backwards and forwards between him wanting to come back, me wanting him back etc. He decided to remain there. However, we still keep going in circles, every few weeks he says he misses us and family, then pulls away. Every time I see him, he appears miserable. Every time we talk, its like he is expecting me to ask him to come back but no really saying much himself. Then will call again (not drunk calling) to say he made a mistake and the circle starts again. I just don't know how to deal with this. He wasn't a great partner, nor is he a great father, but I do miss him terribly. I do not know whether we can work through that mess and whether he even wants to. Its current no stress life versus family life with responsibility.
Do I cut loose?