Can anyone please help me to remind me what is notmral in a sexual relationship. Since meeting dh 4 years ago he has suffered from erectile dysfunction, can't get it up or looses it very quickly. There have been some points in our relationship which have been better than others and seem to be blessed with being very fertile so have got two lovely ds, but not conceived from a great sex life! Anyway we are suffering from 'the flop' very badly at the moment and it is affecting our relationship. I have tried everything including asking him what turns him on. He said fat women. Anyway after not talking for a day (as there is so much anger and hurt with the problem) this morning he wakes me up with a huge erection (sorry if TMI) but as soon as he tries to put it in he looses it. He said he will go to councelling so we are on talking terms again. But log on to computer this morning to find the recent search lists inclucde sex with fat women and dwarfs having sex! So makes me think he was only excited this morning after looking at that web site.
Can anyone tell me how they would feel if this was their dh? Am feeling so numb and upset, cried so much over the last few days.
Any advice anyone sorry if this sounds a weird question, but i am really feeling I don't know what to do or think.