I have an ex. It was an intense relationship which ended a year ago and lasted about 3 years. He ended it. We’ve tried to have a friendship but it’s not been easy. If I’m honest, part of me doesn’t feel over him. The whole relationship was just so wrenching. I would never go back, but I don’t feel healed.
He got in touch today and asked if he could confide in me about something, because I’m the only one who’d understand. I said, of course, and he proceeded to tell me he’d been dumped.
Is it me or is this madness? You dump me and then want me to console you about being dumped? He’s acting like I’m being really unsupportive because I’ve said I’m sorry, I can’t help with this, I am totally not the right person.