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My friend asked her partner if he was gay

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magicallySparkle88 · 04/10/2023 17:58

My friend, lives separately to her partner. He spends a lot of time gaming with his newly male close friend. Raves about how he's helped him. Showers there as he has no access to showers. Has high things to say about him, but treats her like crap.
He seems to spend more time with his new friend than he does with her. Last weekend, she wanted to see him, he had to choose between his friend and her. Reluctantly choose her, but said to her, you'd give me crap if I choose him, so I might aswell see you.

Yesterday she asked him outright if he prefers him to her. His response was- I am not gay.
Blocked her. Is this a worry. Or just bromance?

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Mmhmmn · 05/10/2023 10:10

She definitely needs to dump him and be clear that it’s because he’s not a nice person and she deserves better. Not because she thinks he might be gay. It doesn’t sound like he likes her.

user27092023 · 05/10/2023 22:19

I don't know whether or not he is gay but it really doesn't matter. He sounds like an idiot and a terrible partner. I hope your friend never goes back to him.

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