Need advice

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Hi everyone so I don't know if I'm in the wrong or what but I need some advice on what to do .

I have been dating a new man for the last few weeks and spent 3 nights at his house since the weekend . My dog had been playing up lately in general. He's just severely spoilt and needy and wants me all to him self . Which I have done since having him 3 years ago . My daughter is 18 and at 12-30 last night she was abusing me to come home because the dog was barking . I said no he will settle now and she abused the hell out of me . Saying how much she hates me for being this selfish . That I can't sleep out anymore . I'm a slag I could go on and on . I'm tempted to not even go see this man anymore . So I left and got home and the dog was fast sleep and she was .

I just feel so bad I don't know what to do

If the dog is going to be barking and disturbing the neighbourhood at 12.30am you need to be at home to prevent it.

Is it your dog? Assuming yes..then you need to be home to look after it not use your 18 year old as an unpaid dog sitter ( unruly dog sitter at that).
Whilst you may be upset by her attitude, remember she's 18 and probably overemotional, yet I probably would be with a dog barking consistently at that hour.
Get your dog some training then sleep out.

Take the dog with you

It’s not about the dog. She might be feeling abandoned or struggling with the idea of you dating.