...when you own a house together, have a young toddler and no local support?
I could only afford to rent and cover the cost of living if I were to pick back up full time hours, which I couldn't do because then I'd have no childcare as I couldn't also afford nursery fees. Our child wouldn't qualify for any free hours until the age of 2. Do I just stick with this situation till then? I can't believe I'm in a position to warrant asking this sort of a question.