Older .......younger relationship

[ranger722000]

So here is the deal. I'm 51 yoa and a 21 yoa has taken interest in me. That being said, we have only gone on trips where she always wants to bring a friend. YES......I pay for the hotels/flights/dining for all of us to include the friend. She always states she wants to go on trips with me and is very enthusiastic, but like I said in the few trips we have been on she always insists on being and friend and I always honor her request for a separate room. We all have a great time and they are very thankful.

So the question: Am I just an idiot for going along with this?? Is there even a chance that a 51 YOA and a 21 YOA could even have a relationship. Again....we have only been a few trips.

In the end maybe I should just end it......or maybe keep going and see where it goes??

Any advice would be appreciated.

Does she have a dad or is she trying to replace a father figure?
You haven't come back so I'm assuming you're male and she's female?
I just wanted to clarify as your post reads to me like it's been written by a female.

This is why men sometimes get bad press when they post on mumsnet its cringe in my opinion she's only 21 what could she possibly see in a 50/something guy other than money,what could you see in a 21 year old on better thoughts please don't answer that