Last weekend I asked my husband to leave. I fell that he is emotionally and verbally abusive and I have had enough. Of course he feels that he is the innocent victim in this and that I have broken up our family for no reason.
We have 2 boys age 6 and 20m and live in a privately rented house.
We have debt and no real assets for a number of reasons.
He lost his job last month and has just put in a UC claim.
I need some practical advice on what my next steps should be. He is not going to make this easy on me and I just don't know what to do next.
I am worried that if I put in my own UC claim it will disturb the joint one and we will be unable to pay bills for the next month or so. I can't manage any more debt and childcare costs alone are crippling.
Does anyone know how the UC works in practicality?
Any tips on things that I should be doing?
I just want to move forwards but feel like I am stuck in this awful limbo, in a mess that I don't know how to get out of.