Could it be possible that my boyfriend has moved away?
Here's the context: He was friends with a girl who was his close friends girlfriend. He knew her since 2019. However, the boyfriend moved away to Middle East, started seeing an Arab girl and they broke up.
My boyfriend and this girl started hanging out more frequently and while I didnt see my boyfriend touching her (he would pat her on the shoulder) , she had started to touch him. She would touch his hair, his arm and hug him frequently. I had also saw her staring at him a few times. As far as I know, she had tried to tell him that she wanted to be with him but he became incredibly distant and irritable with her. But regardless they remained friends and I had seen her introducing him to her friends, saying things like "You ve met Romaine". I didn't see them kissing but she would be the first to come and hug him even if he didn't.
I'm currently in Switzerland for my fieldwork so I moved away I'm July and he has been visiting and we spoke a lot on the phone. However, I had noticed that he was awake a lot of the times at 1 am or 3 am.
She had enrolled in a master's program in her home country (Netherlands), quit her job in August to start her course in September. Around the same time, my boyfriend oddly disappeared from his campus during the first two weeks of September. He returned in mid-September, claiming he was traveling and only arrived in London for some important engagements. Although people saw him for a few days, he cleared out much of his desk, took his bags, and returned several books to the library. Afterward, he was not seen on campus again. Interestingly, his desk remained largely unchanged, except for signs that his keyboard and chair had been used. When I checked his desk on my return to the main campus. I had given him a huge bag that he kept next to his desk and that was also gone and a friend who sits in the same room said he took it after he returned.
His WhatsApp activity has also significantly decreased, with him being online only 1 or 2 times on some days, while on other days, he was frequently online. Once he was gone 24 hours and even though I texted him several times, he didn't reply. He replied the next day claiming he was writing his thesis but he ISNT on campus. So where is he writing?
He was also sporadically active on Teams. To add to the intrigue, just before his return to London, he had suddenly deleted me or hid his last seen on Whatsapp. I know this because only his contacts can see his last seen. When i called him out, he reopened his last seen but it was definitely gone.
He never told me he is going somewhere nor did he say where he was travelling.
Given these circumstances, does it raise the question of whether he has indeed moved away to be with her?