I have a work colleague who either likes you or doesn't! She doesn't like me, no reason
She's higher up than me (work in a care home). Often have to go to her and ask for things. But she's so obviously negative towards me (and others). Litually feel like I'm just a big irritation to her. She hardly looks at me or answers my questions. It's just so unnecessary.
The problem is she's not necessarily bullying or nasty, it's all very passive, just difficult and negative. It would be hard for me to write a complaint as it would appear petty. But it happens all the time. I tend to ignore it but I know she's also being negative behind my back.
We've previously had a meeting (with management). But nothings changed. It's her, just the way she is. Towards me and some others.
I wish I didn't care, but I have to be honest and say I do.
Anyone been in a similar situation? Any advise?