My children and I have always had a good relationship but I fear that it has been negatively impacted by their father’s behaviour towards me.
My middle son especially is coming out with things his father has said to me and I know it’s not his fault. Last week I was told I barely work as he’s heard his father say that, following me around trying to listen in on a private ci as his father says I’ve got things to hide! (I ended up in the car as I was talking to a counsellor)
after years of emotional and the occasional physical abuse, put downs in front of the children he’s now making out to the children I’m at fault and they’re believing him. I’m finding this really hard to cope with as I’m starting to believe that I’m the one to blame.
Ive been finding it hard to cope with everything as I work 34 hours a week and I do everything in the house cook, clean, school run, food shop washing etc.
Husband comes in from work and doesn’t lift a finger! He’s now saying that I have to make him want to help around the house !!!
I went out of way this morning On the way to the park with my son to go to the shop to get cheese for the burgers as I knew him he would get annoyed If there wasn’t any cheese . Then I’d have to deal with comments from him and my sons about how I do t do the food shop properly !