Can't work out if I'm the weird one here so would appreciate some input from others.
Split up from exH 8 years ago after 20 years of marriage and 3 children. Youngest was 15 at this point. It was a very amicable split and remains so - although the children lived with me they spent lots of time with their Dad at our house and his. He remarried in 2019, our now adult children went to the wedding and will go round to their dads place as often as adults who live away from the area would normally do ie occasional weekend visits, birthdays, christmas etc. He doesn't have any spare rooms so they stay with me and I still provide a home for them.
Here's the weird bit - middle child (25) has just completed a self funded Masters degree (I'm so very proud of him!!) and has the graduation ceremony in December . There are 2 tickets available and I assumed that his Dad and I would go (separately) like we did last year for our youngest's graduation. However, the wife is not happy at being left out of 'family things to do with the children' so won't let my ex go.
Is it just me who finds this weird? She has had no part in their lives, played no part in supporting them anyway whatsoever, and now wants a ticket to a graduation ceremony or their Dad can't go ? I'm aware that I'm spending far too much time thinking about this (and need to stop doing so!) so feel free to tell me I'm being ridiculous 