Cheater?

[3dogsnorth]

I know the answer but just want a hand hold. Married over 30 years, no previous issues. Gut instinct tells me something amiss. Phone always hidden, taking up new hobbies, always popping out. A quick search reveals conversations with a woman, not flirtatious but asking their opinion of something that I should have been asked. Very shifty in behaviour. Sex between us very intermittent but found a pack of 12 condoms, 6 gone. Not been used with me. I know the answer but what next?

Whatever you decided, some people will ignore it, I don't recommend you this. Some people will confront him and give a try to the relationship, not sure about this neither. And some people will confront him and left the relationship. I think this is the neater one in my opinion.

All depends on you because now you know what is going on and you can mark your own timing.

I think I'd speak with a solicitor. Find our what you'll need to move forwards and get your due if you divorce.

Get all your ducks in a row.

First if all, a mahoosive hug for you 🤗. I think you have already concluded what is probably going on here. Is he leaving 'little clues' here and there such as the missing condoms, so he doesn't have to man-up and tell you directly do you think? Either way, you have to have it out with him to find out what's going on.
It isn't going to be easy, what will you do if he promises to end the 'affair', will you ever trust him again? Times like these you need a close friend or family member you can trust, to support you. Good luck with everything 🤞

Finding out you've been cheated on causes a great deal of hurt.
I love my husband dearly and to see him go through that would be unbearable so never would I do that to him and if you're husband could do this to you then he's not somebody you want to spend your life loving.

🦆🦆🦆🦆🦆🦆🦆🦆