So partner has form for talking to women behind my back and I’ve always found out. Last night our son was on his phone (he has a new one) and he was messing around on his WhatsApp and I saw calls and stuff to and from this woman. Said women was on the scene late last year and early this year and he convinced me I had nothing to worry about (I was pregnant and very vulnerable!) turns out he’s had this women’s number since may 2022! But he changed his number in august 2022 as he’d gave it out to so much women at work so I said right enough is enough last chance get a new number. And he’s done it again, somehow she’s had his new number (he swears blind he didn’t give it to her) which is bullshit! Anyway apperently he was talking to her about her bad mental health and she broke up with her boyfriend and was upset (lol!) I had bad mental health all through out my pregnancy he wasn’t there for me at all just said I should shut up and be happy I was pregnant. We had a mmc last summer so I was very paranoid but I’m not gonna go into it. I had an instinct all along but he shut me down saying I’m paranoid etc. well yeah last night he couldn’t deny it he said yeah he had been speaking to her nothing untoward so i said ok show me the messages and he said he deleted them. I then saw they had a video call on the 3rd July (our son was born 2nd July) and a 25 minute video call on 20th July, a video call on the 8th august and then a phone call 5th September. Now this is enough, after everything I am done. I’ve left him he can get on with it. I don’t know if it matters but he’s 32 and she’s 21 I don’t know if it’s cos we have a daughter it just makes me feel sick.
I have her number, shall I tell her I know they were talking to see if she’d tell me the truth? Or just leave it? Whatever happens me and him are done so I’m not sure I’d be gaining anything 🤷🏻♀️ so sorry this is long!