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Husband behaviour

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MariaL40 · 23/09/2023 19:10

I worked today husband had a day off i had a terrible migraine after working and food shopping. I went to bed for 2 hours when I came home. when I got up I had to go to the butchers and asked nicely if he could move his car so I could get out. He refused telling me he had no intention of getting his ass (his words ) off the couch and he’d move his car in an hour when he was ready.
I insisted and told him he couldn’t decide when I left the house that I was asking nicely and I just wanted to go as I’d not been feeling well. He shouted for 20 minutes I stood my ground shaking inside and white as a sheet he kicked the table and then on his way out said he would move the car as otherwise he’d do something he shouldn’t. I felt so upset leaving the house but I’m taking baby steps to leave

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Ragruggers · 23/09/2023 19:18

I am sorry what a horrible person.I hope you are ableto leave soon,this is no life.I would just cook for yourself keep out of his way.Do not do any of his wahing.I hope you have people you are able to talk to and support you.Do you own a house together?How can you leave do you have a plan.Good luck.Migraines are awful and stress makes it so much worse.Drink lots of water and healthy food,look after yourself. You will get there.

Greensleeves · 23/09/2023 19:20

You need to get the hell away from him before he seriously hurts you. He's building up to it, believe me.

Butterkist8 · 23/09/2023 20:04

He sounds vile. You know what to do.

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