A few years ago I was kissing a man after being out with him for the day. We were in a secluded forest at the time. He put his hands around my lower area (over my clothes) and then in a letter of seconds he put his hand in my underwear an shoved his fingers inside me.
It really hurt and I was taken aback and froze, and then stopped what was happening completely. I asked him afterward not to do that again, but he said he thought I would like it because I felt 'ready' down there. He didn't seem to understand that can be uncomfortable for a woman even if that area is 'wet' and why wouldn't I like it.
He did apologise and said he would never do that again without asking me, but the whole thing made me feel really weird. I had a pain in my vagina for a few days after as I think there must have been an injury internally, and mentally I just felt strange about the whole thing.
The stories over the past week has made me think about this incident again, but I've always felt I had some blame because I was kissing him and we were getting quite hot and heavy I suppose. It probably seemed like I did want that.