I just wanted to get some on-site if I am being unreasonable or not so I gave 4 kids and I try to keep up to my level best with looking after kids and house work done things may not be upto standard however I’m trying to get everything done to my level best but I have no self confidence and have low self esteem to day I’m in kitchen and my hubby says to me behind my back that aww I should of taught you how to do this properly I got pissed off listening to this statement because I don’t feel valued like a kid and it’s not first time it’s constant complaining about how I haven’t done this on time or can’t do this I’m fed up and because of all of this I feel very low like I’m useless or a looser that’s why he keeps complaining I’m just fed up of him.