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First hotel break with bf - advice please

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hayleyjade · 17/09/2023 20:22

I've recently become romantically involved with someone I've know for several years as a friend. Its his birthday in a couple of weeks and he'd book to go away to a European city break with his best friends for 2 nights... Unfortunately the friend could no longer make it, and I've been invited in his place. The trip was book long before we got together and the best friend has a very genuine reason for being unable to make it (I know him and his family too).
They would have been sharing a twin room.. I'm ok with sharing a room and even a bed, but don't feel quite ready for anything beyong kissing and cuddling at the moment. Bf is very respectful of this and he's not pushed for anything more, but I just feel bit nervous about 2 nights in a hotel room together. I've never done this before as such an early stage in a relationship. Do I need to have a conversation with him before the trip, or wait to see how it goes when there? Just don't want any awkwardness or being considered as "up for it" when I don't feel ready to take that step so early on in the relationship.

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CurlsandCurves · 17/09/2023 20:32

See how it goes.

You've know each other as friends, you say he’s been respectful so far. That’s a great start to a relationship. From what you’ve said, if a conversation needs to happen, it will, and it’ll be fine.

Enjoy the break away together!

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