Hi I’m just after advice regarding my close friend. We have been friends for 7 years. She’s 25 and I’m nearly 32. She has been in a bad relationship during the most part of our friendship and I suppose she’s seen me as her rock and support however she’s now out of that relationship and is into a new one and is a lot happier and I see the person I first met coming back again she is being like a normal 25 year old going out a lot with her boyfriend and his friends.
The problem is I don’t really hear from her anymore unless it’s for outfit advice for her nights out or to go and spend money on random days out which as someone who is budgeting I’ve found difficult to do. So I have had to tell her I can’t do that but maybe we can do this instead. Now I don’t hear from her at all now and when I do she goes on about her boyfriend and what she’s been spending.
I just don’t know what to do I make the effort to message but it seems forced now should I just let this fade out or keep trying? Thank you