Dh asked me to kiss his neck last night

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During sex last night dh asked me to kiss his neck, he has never done so before. I nibbled his ear too

The effect was dramatic! He came within about 30 seconds and was VERY happy.

I feel like a terrible wife, how have i not noticed this in almost 2 years together?

I am wondering how many other things go unnoticed in a relationship beacause we are too scared\embarrassed to ask.

i know there is stuff i am too embarrassed to mention to DH, about sex. Its quite rude

We have been together 5 years. I bet he has stuff too.

LOL! Excellent!

Don't feel guilty - alls wel that ends well and all that

Hmm I have been with DH for 8 years and I have discovered something I LOVE to do but it has the opposite effect on him... so I haven't done it again.

It's bloody ridiculous isnt it! I wouldnt care less if he asked me to do something (i didnt last night) but what stops us?

Where is a man who can join in with this, do men have that same barrier we do? I am guessing they must or my dh would have asked before surely?

Come on Jingley, spill please

I am thinking of introducing a little book. Something we can both write down ideas in and then if the other one feels like it we can do it. That way no one has to ask and be ambarrased or face outright rejection and if we dont like it it is never mentioned.

What do ya think?

i think you should whisper it in his ear at the right time

Scorpio

not sure I should, it had such a negative effect on Dh I wouldn't want to kill the thread.

Oh go on.

What do you think of my book idea? Perhaps if dh knew he could save it for birthdays

now i'm intrigued !!

I think your book idea is great but it has to be kept in a very very safe place... I would be so embarrassed if anyone found it

A whole book might be a bit intimidating...

What about slips of paper in the condom packet?

Just say it in the dirtiest way possible in his ear during sex - he will prob do anything!!

Yes OMG if it were found arrgh! Go with sugar paper and then eat the evidence.

Condoms? Am ttc

Good grief had not thought about the children finding the book! Imagine that passed around the 9 yr olds class Mortifying. Have given up on book idea now.

also use bribe - when i am pg i won't like sex so lets do it all now

Sugar paper brill idea. Will look out for it.

I cant do that dirty talk, always think i will pmsl or die of embarrasement

Well now, seeing as he's been too shy to ask you to do it before, I bet he'd be thrilled to know you are telling us all .

Hence the name change.