Or who has an alcoholic family member or friend.
In my case it's my husband. Yesterday I had to throw out a piece of furniture he fell into and broke when he came home. He pissed the bed and all over the rug.
A few months ago I was getting fresh linen from the bottom of the chest of drawers and it was damp and smelled really strange. He had obviously pissed in the drawer when he last went on a bender. I only realised yesterday when changing the bed sheets what that was.
He's done this one time before into an empty mug on the bedside table. The shame was enough for him to stop drinking for a couple of months but he got right back at it.
He's too hungover to go to work. He's sitting around the house feeling sorry for himself today.
I'm already planning on leaving. Theres no love anymore. I just need to vent. I have people to talk to in real life but they all know H well and I don't feel comfortable telling them what truly goes on.